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Extra for foreplay: spice up the mood before the big moment

Ever thought about turning a quick cuddle into an irresistible tease that leaves you both craving more? It's time to explore the world of extra for foreplay. At Desirel sex shop, you'll discover everything from silky blindfolds to cheeky spanking toys, plus all kinds of sex toys designed to help you build anticipation, slowly heat things up, and make the experience exactly what you want.

Whether you're in a committed relationship, casually dating, exploring your own desires, or enjoying solo adventures, the right foreplay accessories can transform ordinary touches into something that feels far more intimate, exciting, and unforgettable. They’re all about building anticipation and taking your time, rather than rushing straight to the main event.

In this guide, we'll show you what foreplay accessories are, the most popular options, how to pick the perfect ones for your style, and how to use them confidently and safely. By the end, you'll have tons of ideas for your next playful evening – whether you're flying solo or with a partner.

What are extra foreplay accessories?

Extra foreplay accessories are playful items designed to enhance the time spent before penetration (or climax). Instead of jumping straight to the big moment, you can use these tools to tease, excite your senses, and fully engage your body in the pleasure process.

These don’t replace your regular sex toys, like vibrators or masturbators – they complement them. Think of them as the warm-up that sets the stage for a hotter experience: sensual foreplay accessories such as feather ticklers, massage oils, and nipple toys, or edgier items like blindfolds and spankers that add a hint of dominance and submission.

You'll find foreplay toys that suit every comfort level. Some are soft and romantic; others are more daring and intense. You can mix them with other sex toys for foreplay, like cock rings or bullets, to create the perfect experience tailored to your desires.

Types of extra foreplay accessories

The selection of foreplay accessories for both couples and solo play is extensive. Here are some of the most popular options you'll find in the foreplay accessories category.

Eye mask / blindfold

An eye mask or blindfold is one of the easiest ways to elevate your sessions. By removing sight, every touch becomes more intense and full of surprises. A soft blindfold is a classic sensory play toy and is perfect if you're curious about exploring power dynamics without diving into full-on BDSM.

Use a silky eye mask to gently guide your partner, tease them with kisses, breath, or a feather, and watch as they feel every touch more intensely. It’s ideal for beginners and works great with other couples foreplay toys.

Nipple suckers and nipple toys

The nipples are one of the most sensitive areas, and many people can come close to orgasm just from nipple stimulation. That’s where nipple suckers and nipple teasers come into play. These toys create suction, pressure, or vibration on the nipples, enhancing arousal and making every touch more powerful.

If you’re after something gentler, try soft nipple toys for foreplay with adjustable suction or soft tips. For a more intense experience, you can explore stronger suction or use them with a blindfold to deepen the pleasure.

Body massager and massage oils

A body massager or wand transforms your entire body into an erogenous zone. You can use these sensual foreplay accessories on areas like the shoulders, back, thighs, buttocks, or feet to ease tension and gradually build arousal. Pair them with scented or warming oils for an experience that’s both relaxing and erotic.

Choose a smaller massager for subtle teasing or a more powerful wand if you want to transition from soothing massage to intense stimulation. It’s perfect for beginners because you can start gently and increase the intensity if it feels right.

Feather teaser / feather tickler

A feather teaser is a must-have for anyone who enjoys soft, shivery sensations on the skin. These teasing foreplay toys are all about gentle caresses: glide the feather over your partner’s neck, chest, inner thighs, and back while they’re blindfolded, and see their body respond.

You can combine a feather teaser with firmer tools like a spanking paddle for couples to alternate between soft and intense sensations – a classic move in BDSM and BDSM accessories. The contrast between soft feathers and firmer impacts creates an incredibly exciting experience.

Spanker, paddle, and light impact tools

Spankers and paddles are ideal for those who enjoy a bit of sting, smack, or thud during play. They're part of the BDSM whip and paddle category but work perfectly for playful, sensual foreplay as well. You get to decide how intense or light you want it.

Use a soft spanker for gentle taps on the buttocks or thighs, or a paddle for both gentle pats and harder slaps. Combine it with a blindfold or nipple toys, and you’ve got a mix of submission, anticipation, and pleasure that many couples find irresistible.

Other playful foreplay toys

In addition to these classics, there are plenty of other fun foreplay toys: sexy card games, sex dice, edible body paint, warming lubes, flavored lubes, and more. These intimacy accessories for couples are great for breaking the ice, sharing laughs, and building up the mood without any pressure.

Who should use foreplay accessories?

In short, anyone. Foreplay accessories aren’t just for “kinky” couples; they’re for anyone who wants to add more fun, connection, and pleasure before sex.

You might love them if:

• You’re in a long-term relationship and want to spice things up with new couples foreplay toys.
• You’re exploring your own desires and want to find what types of touch and pressure you enjoy.
• You want to focus on arousal and relaxation rather than rushing into penetration or climax.
• You’re looking for foreplay toys for her, foreplay toys for him, or foreplay toys for them to enhance your solo sessions.
• You’re curious about BDSM but want to start with more sensual and gentle tools.

We recommend using foreplay accessories when you want to slow down and truly enjoy the experience: anniversaries, date nights, lazy Sundays, holidays, or whenever you want to turn ordinary sex into something extraordinary. Even a simple eye mask and feather can transform a quick moment into a fun game.

Why use foreplay accessories?

Why bother with sensual foreplay toys when you could just get on with it? Because the right accessories can:

• Enhance arousal by engaging more senses – touch, smell, sound, and taste.
• Help you relax and be present in the moment, especially with massage tools.
• Bring a sense of adventure, particularly with kinky foreplay toys.
• Increase intimacy and trust, especially when playing with blindfolds or spankers.
• Help couples with mismatched libidos find a pace and style that works for both.

For many, foreplay accessories also boost body confidence. When the focus is on sensation and fun, not performance, it’s easier to relax, laugh, and truly enjoy the moment.

How to choose the right foreplay accessories

Choosing the right foreplay accessories depends on your personality, experience, and the types of sensations you enjoy. Here's a quick guide.

For total beginners

If you’re new to foreplay toys, start with something soft and gentle:

• Soft blindfold or eye mask – simple, non-intimidating, and super effective.
• Feather teaser – perfect for light, tickling sensations.
• Warming or scented massage oils – ideal for romantic, soothing evenings.

These are great if you’re shy or nervous but want to try romantic foreplay accessories without feeling overwhelmed.

For curious couples

If you’ve already tried a few things and want more:

• Nipple suckers and nipple toys – for stronger chest stimulation.
• Small body massager – for deeper vibrations and full-body teasing.
• Sexy games and sex dice – for playful, low-pressure fun.

This is where many people begin exploring more intimate foreplay toys and discover new erogenous zones they didn’t know existed.

For advanced or kinky players

If you enjoy intensity, power exchange, or BDSM vibes:

• Spankers and paddles – choose the right size and material for the impact you want.
• Complete sensory sets – mix blindfolds, cuffs, feather ticklers, and spankers.
• Stronger nipple clamps or suction toys – for deeper, more intense sensations.

These kinky foreplay accessories are perfect for BDSM roleplay but can also be used in more romantic, consensual scenarios focused on connection, not pain.

Using foreplay accessories safely

Most foreplay accessories are straightforward to use, but a few basic rules will ensure everything goes smoothly, safely, and enjoyably.

Talk first, play second

Before diving into blindfolds, spankings, or any other action, make sure to communicate. Discuss what you’re curious about, what’s a “maybe,” and what’s a “no-go.” Agree on a safe word or signal, especially if using BDSM accessories or impact toys.

Start slow and build up

With nipple toys, spankers, or powerful wands, always begin at the lowest intensity and gradually increase. Everyone has different pain and pleasure thresholds. For gentle foreplay toys for sensitive skin, check the material feel and avoid irritated areas.

Mix sensations

One of the best things about foreplay accessories is combining them:

• Blindfold + feather teaser.
• Massage oil + body massager.
• Spanker + soothing aftercare.
• Nipple toys + breath or tongue.

Switching between soft and firm, warm and cool, subtle and intense keeps things exciting and arousal building.

Care, cleaning, and storage

Always follow care instructions for your foreplay toys. Clean everything that touches your skin with appropriate cleaners, let it dry, and store it in a safe, discreet place to keep your toys in top condition.

FAQ – common questions about foreplay accessories

1. Are these toys only for couples?

No! Many foreplay accessories work wonderfully for solo play too. Use a blindfold to enhance sensations, a body massager for relaxation and arousal, or nipple toys and feathers to explore new sensations on your own body. Solo play is a great way to learn what you love before sharing with a partner.

2. Are they too intense for beginners?

Not at all. Plenty of soft, romantic sensual foreplay accessories are perfect for newbies: feathers, massage oils, eye masks, and light teasing toys. You’ll only move on to more intense kinky foreplay toys if that’s what you want.

3. Do foreplay accessories hurt?

Most foreplay accessories are designed for pleasure, not pain. Feathers, blindfolds, and massage oils are gentle and soothing. Tools like spankers or nipple toys can be intense, but you control the intensity and can stop immediately if something doesn’t feel right.

4. How many do I need?

You don’t need a huge collection. Many people start with one or two fun foreplay toys, like a blindfold and feather teaser or massage oil and a body massager. Later, you can add more specialized items as you figure out what you enjoy.

5. Can I use these with other sex toys?

Definitely – that’s where the real fun begins! Combine a blindfold and feather with a vibrator or use nipple toys with a massager on the thighs. Mixing sex toys for foreplay with accessories gives you endless ways to play.

6. Are they discreet if I live with others?

Yes! Many foreplay accessories like massage oils, feathers, and blindfolds are subtle and can be stored safely. Packaging from our store is discreet too, so you don’t have to worry about anyone knowing what’s inside.

Why choose Desirel sex shop?

Shopping at Desirel sex shop makes finding the perfect foreplay accessories easy and enjoyable. Here’s why:

• Secure ordering: Your data is protected, payments are encrypted, and checkout is quick and safe.
• Fast, discreet shipping: We use neutral packaging with no logos – it looks like any other delivery.
• Over 10,000 products: From gentle sensual foreplay accessories to intense BDSM kits, we have everything you need.
• No lines, no awkward moments: Shop from home, add to your cart, and your order will be discreetly delivered.
• Helpful customer service: If you’re not sure which foreplay toys to choose, get friendly, non-judgmental advice.

All you need to do is choose the perfect foreplay accessories, and we’ll handle the rest.

Conclusion: savor the experience

Foreplay accessories aren’t about complicating things; they’re about making pleasure deeper, more playful, and more personal. With the right mix of blindfolds, nipple toys, body massagers, feather ticklers, and impact tools, you can create nights that are romantic, kinky, or a little bit of both.

Start with something simple like a feather and eye mask or build a collection of fun foreplay toys. Remember, communication, consent, and curiosity are your best tools. Listen to your body, listen to your partner, and let the accessories enhance the experience.

When you're ready to explore, you'll find a wide range of foreplay accessories and intimate toys at Desirel sex shop – always discreet, always fun, and always ready to turn “just foreplay” into the best part of the night.